So what do you call someone who is friendly and social but doesn’t have many friends because they sabotage their relationships?
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Aaron W Well I call myself Aaron, but my students call me Mr. Westbrook
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring So maybe you and I can be friends and just ignore each other when the sabotage comes . . .
Julie M um, are you talking about me?
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring Not originally, did I hurt your feelings by something I said?
Donald B Why are you talking about me like that?
Donald B Funny how many of your friends think you’re talking about them……birds of a feather??
Julie M I’m just thinking about how few friends I have and I figured I was the subject.
Donald Bu I figured since I have under 100 friends on FB (and actually know all of them in real life) that I was the subject 😀
Aaron W I was just being a smart-ass, hehe
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring Sorry, let me clarify I’m the dumb one that is the subject of the post. I’m still trying to find the word that describes me though.
Donald B eccentric?
Donald B Funny?
Donald B You could always post one of those chain letter posts that have people post one word descriptions of you and see what you get in return…..
Julie M I don’t think you sabotage your relationships, at least not ours. You’re a quiet girl and it’s all good. You’re a supportive friend.
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring That’s cause you haven’t known me long enough.
Aaron W I have known you since 2001. The only reason I don’t talk to you more is the fact that you live in another state, and even that is a barrier that I, me, myself has not tried to overcome. You are, without a doubt, one of the greatest people I have ever met and I will continue to think so well after I have “known you long enough.”
Julie M You can’t scare me away, sorry. I plan on knowing you a very long time. If you look like you’re sabotaging, I’ll let you know, it’s all good.
Sherrie S Me
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring I’m centering on a combination of stupid (failure to learn from mistakes) and stubborn (inability to let go) – something like stuborn.
Leah N fearful of trusting and of intimacy, a prisoner inside of themselves needing to be set free. Praying for wisdom from above for you – you’re a great mom, Becca!
Kevin M Answer: Women
Donald B I don’t see how those traits run away friends that are worth having…
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring True Donald, those only kick in once I’m in sabotage mode. Let’s see, Leah is probably closer. If I was reading a book on the foster kids they would say fear of rejection (which is why they sabotage). So fear of rejection coupled with my wonderful character traits.
Katherine P We love you. We’re going to keep loving you. Want me to come over and clean in a few weeks and we can drink Dr. Peppers together?! I miss that. I also miss thursday nights. Basically I just miss YOU GUYS!
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring I actually had to replace you with a cleaning crew. 🙁 Its probably one of the best decisions I’ve made in years. I feel so happy after they do the house.
Erin H Wow, I don’t think of you as someone who sabotages relationships at all.
Aaron W Well I call myself Aaron, but my students call me Mr. Westbrook
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring So maybe you and I can be friends and just ignore each other when the sabotage comes . . .
Julie M um, are you talking about me?
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring Not originally, did I hurt your feelings by something I said?
Donald B Why are you talking about me like that?
Donald B Funny how many of your friends think you’re talking about them……birds of a feather??
Julie M I’m just thinking about how few friends I have and I figured I was the subject.
Donald Bu I figured since I have under 100 friends on FB (and actually know all of them in real life) that I was the subject 😀
Aaron W I was just being a smart-ass, hehe
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring Sorry, let me clarify I’m the dumb one that is the subject of the post. I’m still trying to find the word that describes me though.
Donald B eccentric?
Donald B Funny?
Donald B You could always post one of those chain letter posts that have people post one word descriptions of you and see what you get in return…..
Julie M I don’t think you sabotage your relationships, at least not ours. You’re a quiet girl and it’s all good. You’re a supportive friend.
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring That’s cause you haven’t known me long enough.
Aaron W I have known you since 2001. The only reason I don’t talk to you more is the fact that you live in another state, and even that is a barrier that I, me, myself has not tried to overcome. You are, without a doubt, one of the greatest people I have ever met and I will continue to think so well after I have “known you long enough.”
Julie M You can’t scare me away, sorry. I plan on knowing you a very long time. If you look like you’re sabotaging, I’ll let you know, it’s all good.
Sherrie S Me
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring I’m centering on a combination of stupid (failure to learn from mistakes) and stubborn (inability to let go) – something like stuborn.
Leah N fearful of trusting and of intimacy, a prisoner inside of themselves needing to be set free. Praying for wisdom from above for you – you’re a great mom, Becca!
Kevin M Answer: Women
Donald B I don’t see how those traits run away friends that are worth having…
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring True Donald, those only kick in once I’m in sabotage mode. Let’s see, Leah is probably closer. If I was reading a book on the foster kids they would say fear of rejection (which is why they sabotage). So fear of rejection coupled with my wonderful character traits.
Katherine P We love you. We’re going to keep loving you. Want me to come over and clean in a few weeks and we can drink Dr. Peppers together?! I miss that. I also miss thursday nights. Basically I just miss YOU GUYS!
Rebecca Diltz Nate Moehring I actually had to replace you with a cleaning crew. 🙁 Its probably one of the best decisions I’ve made in years. I feel so happy after they do the house.
Erin H Wow, I don’t think of you as someone who sabotages relationships at all.
Katherine P Hahahaha I understand!